Hey there! If you’re new here, welcome to The Messy Mum Blog! I’m Kaylie, the voice behind this space dedicated to helping parents—especially those navigating life with ADHD—find balance, confidence, and joy in the chaos of parenting. If you’re curious about my journey, check out my introductory post (About). But for now, let me tell you about my dream business and how it aims to transform the lives of ADHD parents.
Embracing My ADHD Journey
Three years ago, I was diagnosed with ADHD, and my world shifted. After years of feeling like a constant job hopper and struggling to keep up with life, I finally understood why: I had been working against my brain instead of embracing its quirks. Like many parents with ADHD, I often felt overwhelmed, juggling the endless demands of motherhood while managing my unique challenges.
This diagnosis sparked a mission to navigate ADHD confidently. I hyper-focused on self-help books, binge-watched ADHD YouTubers, and scoured countless blogs for tips. While I learned a lot, I realised thriving with ADHD isn’t just about gathering information—it’s about having real support. That’s when the idea for The Messy Mum Blog was born.
I started this blog back in 2021, but in that time, I have only written a handful of blog posts. Why, you ask? Well, the simple answer is that I didn’t know what I could do to offer help while I was still navigating the hurdles. I have now realised that I didn’t want to listen to someone who has completely mastered every part of parenting with ADHD, I wanted to relate to someone who is finding a few things to help. This is where the dream began.
The Big Dream: Supporting ADHD Parents
Parenting is tough for anyone, but for parents with ADHD, it can feel like an impossible balancing act. The world doesn’t always cater to our unique brains, and traditional parenting advice often falls flat when applied to ADHD households. That’s why The Messy Mum Blog is here—to fill the gap and provide tailored support for parents who are tired of just coping and ready to thrive.
Here’s what sets us apart:
- We Focus on You: Most parenting advice centers on raising kids. But what about you, the parent? Our mission is to empower parents with ADHD to create sustainable habits, manage overwhelm, and feel in control of their lives. Because when you’re thriving, your whole family benefits.
- Realistic and ADHD-Friendly Strategies: Life doesn’t have to feel like a constant battle. We’re here to help you build habits that work with your brain, tackle parenting challenges, and find balance in the beautifully messy journey of life.
Why ADHD Parents Need Unique Support
If you’re a parent with ADHD, you’ve probably faced moments of overwhelm—trying to keep up with routines, managing work stress, and wondering if you’re doing enough. These struggles often aren’t about your abilities as a parent; they stem from the challenges of managing ADHD in a world that doesn’t always understand it.
That’s why The Messy Mum Blog is dedicated to helping parents:
- Create ADHD-Friendly Habits: Forget rigid routines. We’ll help you develop flexible systems that mimic routines without feeling suffocating.
- Simplify Home Life: From laundry piles to cluttered kitchens, we’ll show you how to take small, actionable steps to feel in control of your home.
- Manage Work-Life Balance: Learn strategies to tackle work challenges without constant stress or guilt.
This isn’t about achieving perfection. It’s about feeling confident, capable, and like you’re winning at life—even on the tough days.
What We Offer
The Messy Mum Blog is more than just a blog—it’s a community and a resource hub designed to meet you where you are. Here’s how we plan to help:
1. Multiservice Communication
Not everyone has time to read lengthy articles, so we’re offering multiple ways to connect. Whether you prefer watching videos, listening to podcasts, or diving into blog posts, we’ll deliver practical advice in formats that work for you.
2. Affordable 1:1 Support
Sometimes, you need more than general advice. Our virtual appointments will provide personalized support to help you strategize, organize, and tackle challenges unique to your situation. Together, we’ll create a plan tailored to your needs.
3. Workbooks and Printables
From habit trackers to decluttering guides, we’ll provide tools to help you build sustainable systems. These resources will simplify your life and help you focus on what truly matters.
4. Community Support
Parenting with ADHD can feel isolating, but it doesn’t have to be. Our peer groups and local events will offer a space to connect with other ADHD parents, share experiences, and find encouragement.
The Mission Behind It All
Our mission is simple: to empower ADHD parents to turn their challenges into strengths. We’re here to provide a non-judgmental space where you feel heard, supported, and equipped to thrive.
Through this journey, we aim to:
- Challenge the Stigma: ADHD isn’t a weakness; it’s a different way of thinking. By embracing our unique strengths, we can redefine what success looks like.
- Empower Parents: When you understand your brain and build systems that work for you, parenting becomes less overwhelming and more fulfilling.
- Create Lasting Change: Thriving parents create thriving families. By helping you put yourself first sometimes, we’re fostering healthier, happier households.
Why This Matters to Me
When I was diagnosed with ADHD, I felt like I was left to figure it all out on my own. While medication helped, understanding my brain became my obsession. I know not everyone has the time, energy, or resources to dive deep into ADHD research—and they shouldn’t have to.
I’ve also seen the transformative power of support. Through my experience supporting mothers during their infant feeding journeys, I witnessed how much a listening ear and the right tools can make a difference. Now, I want to bring that same care to the ADHD parenting community.
The Vision for the Future
This isn’t just about creating a business; it’s about building a movement. I envision a world where ADHD parents feel confident, supported, and ready to thrive. Here’s how we plan to make an impact:
- Normalizing ADHD: By sharing stories, strategies, and successes, we’ll challenge misconceptions about ADHD and highlight its strengths.
- Building Community: Connection is key. Through peer groups, events, and online spaces, we’ll foster a supportive network of parents who understand your journey.
- Empowering Families: When parents feel supported and confident, their children benefit too. Our work isn’t just about parents—it’s about creating thriving families.
Join Me on This Journey
If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, judged, or exhausted trying to balance parenting and life with ADHD, you’re not alone. The Messy Mum Blog is here to help you:
- Drain the overwhelm.
- Build confidence in your parenting journey.
- Embrace the beautifully messy life you’re living.
Let’s redefine what it means to thrive with ADHD. Together, we can turn challenges into superpowers and make thriving the new normal. Ready to join the movement? Let’s get started!
At The Messy Mum Blog, we’re not just creating resources; we’re creating a community where ADHD parents can feel empowered, understood, and ready to take on the world. Let’s embrace the chaos, support each other, and turn thriving into the new standard for ADHD parenting.
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